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Why habits are hard to break — even when we desperately want to

Florien Cramwinckel by Florien Cramwinckel
06/12/2025
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Why are habits hard to break? Don’t rely on willpower. Psychology shows habits change when the context shifts — not when you try harder.
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How often have you wanted to change some small behavior — like eating healthier, cycling more, or not checking your phone first thing in the morning — only to find yourself slipping back into old routines within days? Why are some habits so hard to break? It’s not you. You need more than willpower to break your habits

You’re not lazy. You’re habitual.

According to behavioral scientists Verplanken and Wood (2006), most of our daily behaviors aren’t guided by conscious choices at all. They’re habits — fast, automatic, context-triggered responses. And that makes them surprisingly resistant to change. So why is it so hard to break habits, even when we know better?

Why willpower alone doesn’t break habits

Let’s say you’re trying to reduce food waste. You read articles, watch a documentary, maybe even post a zero-waste tip. But at the end of a busy day, you throw out leftovers again.That’s because information and intention — while helpful — are often powerless against habit loops that run on autopilot. In fact, information may even be the least fruitful intervention method to change behavior, according to scientific research.

Verplanken and Wood explain that most public campaigns fail to change habitual behavior unless they hit people at a very specific moment: when their context changes.

The power of “habit windows”

In one study, people who had recently moved were significantly more responsive to sustainability interventions. Not because they suddenly cared more, but because their routines were disrupted — opening a window for change.

New home, new cues = old habits disabled, new ones installable.

In behavioral terms, this is known as a “habit discontinuity” — a break in your usual environment that weakens automaticity and makes people more open to deliberate change.

How to break unwanted habits in practice?

If you want to change a habit, change the context:

  • Start that new routine during a holiday, job change or move.
  • Place healthy snacks where the chips used to live.
  • Sit in a different spot at work.
  • Change your app layout or browser homepage.
  • Or — my favorite trick — walk a slightly different route to the kitchen.

The world shapes our actions more than we think. And small tweaks to that world can provide a window for change.

TL;DR

Undesirable habits don’t break with willpower. They break when the world around you shifts. Change your context to change your life.

📚 Reference

Verplanken, B., & Wood, W. (2006). Interventions to break and create consumer habits. Journal of Public Policy & Marketing, 25(1), 90–103. https://doi.org/10.1509/jppm.25.1.90 https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1509/jppm.25.1.90

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I’m a behavioral scientist, writer and speaker with a deep interest in human behavior — from money and decision-making to climate, AI, identity, and everyday habits. I translate research into sharp, accessible insights that help us understand not just how we act, but why. Expect nuance, evidence, and a touch of playfulness.

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